Friday, June 18, 2010

GRADUATION DAY

Well, we missed 1 day due to thunderstorms, 1 day due to sickness, and 4 days due to the early arrival of his baby sister, but James still managed to make it to the pool today for his final swim lesson. And no, there wasn't actually a graduation. No certificate. Not even a real class - it was "free swim". We were so glad we went though! James got to get out of the house, have some fun with his Daddy one-on-one, and cool off. And the grandparents got to watch him kick and blow bubbles, and even "jump" off the side of the pool into his Daddy's waiting arms (he was technically sitting, and just scooted overboard - it was a goal though, so we were glad to see him do it). We did NOT dunk his head underwater today, just in case...

Here he is with his Daddy, getting the lesson started with a smile:
Here he is "jumping" into his Daddy's arms:
And here he is practicing his kicks (please note the adorable Plumber's Crack):
Many thanks to the 'Burg Swim Team for making lessons such a fun experience for us - we really loved hanging out with you guys on a regular basis. We'll have to keep the playdates going! And thank you for Cora's roses too, they are so beautiful and fragrant!

SLEEP SHEEP = SWEET DREAMS

And not just for Cora, but for her Mama as well!

Hooray for bassinet sleeping!!

Thursday, June 17, 2010

FLOWER BOTTOM

Just testing out tummy-time for a few minutes this afternoon. She went straight to sleep...
And no, she is not sucking her thumb already, it just looks like she is. She does get her fingers into her mouth quite often though. They don't stay put, but she sure tries!

SHARING ALREADY?

After 2 nights of Cora refusing to sleep anywhere but in our arms, we decided that no matter how cute and cuddly she is, she can NOT be held all day long by her adoring grandparents (and parents). We enforced 2 solo naps today: one in the bassinet (with her new Sleep Sheep to keep her company - and it WORKED), and one in the stroller (which I used as a "mobile bassinet" with James around the house when he was a newborn). When I took Cora out of the stroller this afternoon, James thought it should be his turn. So his Grambot complied and placed him in, sitting up and holding on like he does to his Radio Flyer wagon, since the stroller is positioned in the bassinet setting. This was right before his noon nap, and he was getting sleepy. However, he refused to get out of the stroller... So, for safety's sake (so he wouldn't tip over and fall out the back), his Grambot laid him down, legs dangling over the front, and continued to drive him around the living room. Within minutes he was passed out and his Grandma was able to take him out and put him into bed properly. But not without taking a picture first (of course):

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

48 HOURS OLD

...and drowning in her newborn-sized clothes (but at least Grandma fixed the gnome hat so it fits). (For anyone interested in Cora's birth story, it is now posted below under June 14th)

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

BABY DOLL

Just for fun, we thought we'd get a photo of Cora in her doll cradle, since she obviously fits.
Our own little baby doll...

MEETING GRANDMA

Cora just turned 1-day-old, and her Grandma just so happened to arrive nearly to the moment...

Monday, June 14, 2010

MEETING GRAMBOT AND GRANDPA

My parents arrived on the first available flight out of San Fran tonight and were able to meet Cora as she turned 9-hours-old.

MEETING BIG BROTHER

Cora met her big brother this afternoon. They even wore matching hats...
And many of you have asked us throughout the day "Who has James?", so we thought we'd let you all know that he had a great 20 hours under Michelle's attentive care. We believe they've bonded over the experience of Cora's arrival:
Thank you Michelle! Today was a truly wonderful day for us and you played a huge part in that by keeping James safe and happy, bringing him to visit us and meet Cora, and holding down the fort at home.

(We'd also like to thank Sandy and Team Kennedy for being on call for James-duty)

CORA MAE'S BIRTH STORY

Cora's birthday was surprising and exciting, yet very smooth. Here's the breakdown by hour...

3:00 AM
I awake in bed with the suspicion that my water is breaking. I use the restroom and confirm that familiar feeling of when my water broke with James. I wake Jay by saying "Sweetie, I'm going to turn on the lights for a minute". He says "Why?", and when I say "Because I think my water broke", he yells "What!?!?!" and jumps out of bed, just standing there, looking around the room in confusion. After he comes around, we check things out and discuss the situation, and decide that yes, for SURE, my water has broken. I call my OB's office to alert them and tell Jay to call Michelle. (Note to other mommies-to-be: when you tell your husband to call the babysitter because your water has broken, be sure to clarify for him that the babysitter does NOT need to jump out of bed and drive immediately to your house - they can have an hour to get ready and wake up a bit!) Then we call our moms to tell them to start making plans to head to Mississippi. I send Jay to shower to wake him up while I wait for the OB's office to call me back. 45 minutes later we eventually get through to a nurse who reserves us a room in labor and delivery. I take a shower and throw last-minute items into our hospital bag while Jay gets things ready downstairs and goes over details with Michelle. When we're all set, I sneak into James' room to kiss him goodbye.

4:40 AM
We head out of the driveway. Destination: The Baby Suites at River Oaks.
5:30 AM
After a very relaxing and traffic-free drive to Jackson, we arrive at the hospital and get checked-in. And we are placed in the exact same delivery room where James was born!

6:00 AM
I am hooked to the monitors and they confirm that my water has indeed broken. Cora is doing great, but contractions haven't started yet and I am only 1 cm dilated. Jay takes one last belly photo for me:
6:15 AM
They placed my IV and started me on fluids.

7:15 AM
Pitocin was started at 18 mL/hr, the standard amount for inductions (since my water broke, I had only a 12ish-hour window to deliver before they'd start pushing for a c-section to avoid infection). Contractions started shortly thereafter.

7:45 AM
Since I was only 1 cm dilated, I was able to experience the oh-so-fun placement of a balloon in my cervix to speed the dilation process. Yes, a balloon. Filled with water. We had a good laugh over it (once the discomfort of the placement passed, anyway). Surely weren't expecting that!

8:30 AM
Pitocin was doubled to 36 mL/hr. Contractions fell into a good pattern, increased in frequency, and QUICKLY became painful.

9:15 AM
Cervical check showed that I a little over halfway to a 4, when the balloon would fall out. Apparently, with a second delivery, you can get the epidural whenever you darn well please though. I waited until I was feeling really uncomfortable, then called for the anesthesiologist. I had a different guy this time, and rather than lay on my side during the procedure, I had to sit up "Indian-style". The first injection went only to my right side (I immediately couldn't feel my right leg or foot at ALL), so he had to re-place the line. It wasn't a bad experience or anything, but it did take a bit longer than last time, and thus had Jay a bit worried (since they kicked him out of the room).

9:30 AM
Doubled the pitocin again and had another "balloon check". ALMOST to 4 cm dilated...

10:00 AM
Pitocin increased to 72 mL/hr, balloon removed (a little tug and it came right out), and up to 5 cm dilated.

11:00 AM
Dilated to 7 cm, but still not completely effaced. We turned the lights low and I laid on my left side to keep Cora happy (her heartrate had been dropping during contractions, enough so that the nurse had considered removing the balloon early and/or dropping the pitocin dose). For an hour, Jay and I just talked and rested. Jay watched the contractions and closely monitored his baby girl's heartrate. I could easily feel my contractions, but they didn't hurt at all.

12:00 PM
For 3 contractions in a row, right before noon, I began to feel pressure. By the end of the 3rd contraction, I was feeling the urge to push and the pressure had increased significantly. I told Jay to go get the nurse QUICK! When she came out of the lunch room, she took one glance at the look on his face and knew we were in business. She was in the room within 5 minutes, calling in the calvary to set up for an immediate delivery. She took a peek at me: fully dilated and effaced, and at +1 station... Cora was almost out all on her own! She called my OB, but she was still in surgery (Mondays are her surgery days), so the on-call OB (Dr. Moses) ran in to catch Cora. We let Cora do the work for me through one more contraction while we waited on the doc. At 12:10 PM I pushed through the start of a contraction, as they were still setting up. Cora nearly popped out before they were ready, so they all yelled for me to stop pushing. With the next contraction though, everyone was ready. I gave 2 big pushes and Cora Mae Lindsay came flying out. There were a lot less people in the room this time around... I didn't have time to get a mirror for the delivery or reach down and touch Cora's head as she crowned, but because I wasn't exhausted from tons of pushing, I was able to bend completely forward and watch the whole thing myself. What a cool experience to see your baby be born. I was in complete awe of her...
Cora Mae was born at 12:17 PM on June 14, 2010, weighing in at 5 pounds and 15 ounces, and measuring 19 inches in length. She was about 2 pounds and 2 inches smaller than her butterball brother was (no wonder she slipped out so easily)! Regardless, I still tore (maybe because she came so fast at the end): 2 short, 2nd degree tears. The delivery of the placenta and mending of my tears was really fast this time though. Cora scored a 9, then a 10, on her APGAR tests. The nurses called her perfect. Jay and I were just mesmerized by her small size and the tiny little noises she was making.
Cora Mae was born at 37 weeks and 3 days gestation (almost 3 weeks early), and thus she was quite covered in vernix (Jay thought he had an albino baby until we explained it to him):
She also had significant cone shape to the back of her head at first, since she spent so many hours pushing against my non-effaced cervix. The fluid and swelling went down really quickly though, and was barely noticeable by the end of her transition period.

Since we had a much smaller crowd in the delivery room this time, there wasn't a nurse available to take photos for us, so all photos from Cora's birth were taken by her Daddy. Here is the self-portrait he took of the 3 of us immediately after her delivery:Hospital policy had changed a bit in the 15 months since we delivered James there, and for the better! We were able to keep Cora in the room with us for an hour and 15 minutes after her delivery, and it was so wonderful to have that extra time to bond and nurse. And she's such a good eater... she nursed for a full 30 minutes on her first attempt! I am so thankful for that, and so in love with my baby girl.After that marathon nursing session, Jay was finally able to get HIS turn to hold his baby girl:Then they had to take her off to the nursery for the rest of her assessments and treatments, and her very first bath. Jay went along to oversee and photo document. Here she is getting her sponge bath (and NOT enjoying it in the least):
She's half clean...Scrubbing some of the vernix off her "cheese head":Back with us after a short 3-hour transition period, sporting her very first bow: Daddy's first diaper change (with a baby girl, of course):Wide awake and staring us down at 4-hours-old:And wide awake throughout much of the night, though happy and content to look around the room and bond with her Mama. Here she is at midnight, almost 12-hours-old, following another great nursing session:While her poor Daddy suffers through an upper respiratory infection without meds (he had planned to see our general practitioner this morning)...
And because both Cora and I did so well with the delivery, transition, and recovery, we were released from the hospital a mere 25 hours after her birth:

Cora lost only 2 ounces in her first day of life and showed no signs of jaundice. I was up and moving around within hours, and actually doing better than I had in a month! The tears aren't even hurting me, and I haven't really bothered with pain pills. Such a blessing to have a fast recovery this time!

And by the way, we DID listen to Pearl Jam again during delivery (and the last hour or so of labor). Before that we were watching World Cup (and updating everyone on our progress via Facebook)!

WELCOME BABY GIRL!

Cora Mae Lindsay has arrived and already stolen our hearts!

Born on June 14, 2010 at 12:17 PM
5 pounds 14.7 ounces and 19 inches
Our first family photo (minus James, but he'll be here soon):
Right before her first bath (3 weeks early and still covered in vernix):
Our alert little girl, watching her Daddy through the nursery window during her transition period:

Stay tuned for Cora's birth story...

Sunday, June 13, 2010

KITTY DOOR MONSTER

Another silly video to celebrate James' seeming recovery...


WOW-MBULANCE

James woke with a 103 fever this morning, following a HORRIBLE night, but has since seemed to have a near full recovery. His temp never got above 100 the rest of the day, and he's really been in a great mood. In celebration of this good news, here is a funny video of James from a couple weeks ago:


(Stephen, we had been teasing him about the "WAHmbulance" due to his constant whining, and he caught on... sort of...)

Saturday, June 12, 2010

COOLING DOWN AT THE WATER TABLE

Whatever this sickness is, it's hit James hard. The poor baby has been skirting a 102 fever all day. In one attempt to cool him off, we took his new pirate ship water table on a maiden voyage:
James has been loving his water table (a recent gift from his grandparents) even without the water, in the kitchen (where he and his Daddy set it up together), for a couple of weeks. Of course, he thought it was even more awesome once we added the water (and he especially likes the cannon and strainer cups)."Hey, where is sunroom kitty going?"

A SNEAK PEEK...

Between my OB's surprise at my last visit and all the exclamations at our work shower yesterday that we hadn't started Cora's nursery yet, I figured I better make some headway this weekend, seeing as she'll be here in about 3 weeks...

The basic necessities are all set: changing table stocked with diapers and dresser full of washed and organized clothes. And we have the pack-n-play/bassinet and glider all set up in our room too. So, whenever Cora chooses to arrive, she'll be assured a safe place to sleep, clean clothes and blankets, and plenty of diapers. By the way, see that gorgeous birdie lamp and the pretty organizer baskets? Those are from Cora's Grandma. And the pink CD player (for the Rockabye Baby CDs) and pink changing pad cover are from her Grambot.

Perhaps next weekend we'll get the crib set up and do some decorating...

Friday, June 11, 2010

WORLD CUP BEGINS

Jay is not the type of guy that spends much time watching sports on TV. In fact, there is RARELY sports on at our home. When there is, it's either soccer or the Olympics. And occasionally some Gator football. Well, World Cup 2010 began tonight, and Jay was thrilled that James was willing to sit on the couch and watch it with him:

I expect to see (or hear, at least, since I tend to preoccupy myself in other ways when sports are on TV) a LOT of soccer in the house this month...

THE FRIDAY CURSE

So, for MONTHS now Team Lindsay has been suffering the "Friday Curse", as I call it. Not every Friday. There are a few weekends that have started off well. But for the most part, we have come to dread Fridays. Either the baby gets sick, or one of us does. Sometimes it starts in the wee hours of the morning (AKA Thursday night) and sometimes it happens RIGHT at the end of the day (as the pediatrician's office is closing, of course). This Friday it happened both ways, and it was James' turn. AGAIN. Poor baby...

Yesterday's swim lesson involved quite a bit of head-dunking and James "drank" a significant amount of pool water. All was well yesterday evening and he went to bed as usual (just a bit later than schedule due to the lesson), but he woke at 9:45pm SCREAMING and crying. And we could NOT get him to relax. It seemed he wasn't even fully awake. We tried cuddling/not cuddling, walking/laying very still, talking/singing, lights on/lights off. It was HORRIBLE! The boy was obviously in pain. We finally gave up after 30 minutes and went out to turn the TV on, hoping it would distract him. No dice. He just kept screaming and crying even though he seemed awake at this point. He couldn't get comfortable. He was SO gassy. So, we figured perhaps it was a tummy issue from drinking all that pool water, and we decided to try Mylicon, even though we haven't given it to him in almost a year. That didn't help either. Finally, I asked Jay to bring him a sippy cup of cold water, to distract him if nothing else. IMMEDIATE calm. He took 4 huge gulps, sighed a big, ragged, out-of-breath-from-crying sigh, then relaxed against me and started watching TV and "talking" to us about the show (it was Deadliest Catch, by the way, which he LOVES for some reason - he ignores cartoons, but he loves the crab boats - go figure). Anyway, he started to really calm down and look sleepy, so Jay took him from me so I could get comfortable. Apparently that was a bad idea becuase he started throwing a major fit again, so we sat there until the show was over and he was completely asleep, then Jay took him to bed. This was at about 11:30pm. He slept well until about 2:30, then woke up screaming and crying again. Jay was able to calm him down in less than 10 minutes, but he was gassy again. Jay decided to stay down in bed with him to keep his eye on him. When Jay first woke at 5:30am this morning, James had a fever (high 101's), so he gave him ibuprofen and he never even woke up. Jay finally had to wake James at 7:00am to get him ready for the day, and his temp was a cool 98.8. James was completely happy and normal and full of energy, as though last nights' episodes had never happened, so we took him to daycare (thinking the fever was either teething, or him just getting hot from sleeping with Jay).

Well, daycare called late this afternoon (4:00pm) to tell me James had been fussy almost all day (which is not like him) and was spiking a 102.7 fever! They gave him ibuprofen and we headed right over to get him. He's still on his antibiotics from his ongoing ear infection, so the pediatrician couldn't recommend anything more than alternating ibuprofen and acetaminophen to get rid of the fever and keep it away. It's most likely something viral (unless the ear infection is fighting back), so there's nothing they can do anyway. He's been fine since we got home, eaten a ton of food, and no longer has a temperature. Hopefully he'll sleep well tonight and this will all be over tomorrow. And we can hope that our Fridays go back to being "fundays" before Cora arrives...

To end this post on a lighter note, however, here is a great video of James from last weekend. He wasn't sick or anything, just exhausted from playing hard with his Daddy and Mama all morning. We thought it was hilarious - such a good multitasker our baby is:

SURPRISE SHOWER

We had a somewhat surprise (last-minute, anyway) baby shower at work today. It was a great way to celebrate Cora's full-term milestone (reached today, at 37 weeks) and revel in more pink, girly baby things. Many thanks to all our coworkers for providing yummy cake and punch, sweet baby gifts, and perhaps most importantly, the promise of frozen meals to stock our to-be-purchased chest freezer! You're all awesome and we're very grateful for your generosity!

And I've come to a conclusion... While folks seem to like buying baby clothes in general, they go wild with the opportunity to buy GIRL baby clothes - seriously, check out that stack on the left. That is ALL clothes! Cora will definitely not have time to sport her big brother's hand-me-downs anymore - too many cute outfits of her very own!

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

NO NEWS IS GOOD NEWS

I suppose. I was hoping to have made at least a TINY bit of progress at my 36-week prenatal appointment today, but no such luck. No dilation. It's OK though. It would be best for Cora to stay put a bit longer anyway. We don't hit full-term status until Friday. And it would be especially convenient if she stays put until her Grandma arrives. I also had no change in blood pressure and was negative for Group B Strep - both excellent pieces of news!

They clocked Cora at 155 bpm today - good and strong. My doc agreed with me that I am definitely carrying Cora lower than I carried James. It's apparently pretty common to carry your second (and subsequent) children lower. I've noticed it not just from photos (and comments by friends and family), but also because I can BREATHE, and my ribs have been completely free of kicks. I'm pretty sure James had his feet wedged up under my rib cage for at least his entire final month in utero... So thanks my little darling, you are making this pregnancy pretty easy on your Mama!

Of course, we can't end the post without an updated belly photo.
Here I am at 36 weeks:

Monday, June 7, 2010

KICKS AND BUBBLES

James had his first swim lesson tonight, and other than just playing and getting used to the water, the main goals were to learn to kick and blow bubbles. And he did both. Again, a very good student for his Daddy:

Here he is making a big splash with his kicks while his instructor watches him and his buddy Coltin:
Watching intently as his Daddy demonstrates how to blow bubbles (with Will and Christina in the background):
Then giving it a shot himself, not the least bit scared of the water:
Coming over to the side of the pool to say hello to his Mama, happy as can be:
Enough lessons, time for some independence! He spent the last 10 minutes or so walking VERY cautiously in circles around the shallow end:
And this was the aftermath:

We're very proud of our boy for doing so well at his first lesson and we think this is going to be a great 2 weeks! Now, if only we can get dinner, bath, and bedtime done on time tomorrow...