Hopefully James won't be too upset that I'm recording this for posterity (it will not go public on Facebook, so only the few of you who still read here will see it)... He came home from school with a few folded notes the other day that I opened because basically ALL his teacher notes/seatwork from school come home folded or crumpled, so I have to check everything (that's tucked into his binder, at least) in case it's pertinent info. Turns out they were not seatwork papers, but notes that he had been passing back and forth with his "friend girl", Darcy. (She's in his homeroom class and also his ballet class - she's very shy and sweet, and she very clearly has a crush on him, as even her father told me at the Christmas in-house review that she's "sweet on him". Apparently he has a crush on her too...) He wasn't upset that I saw the notes, but he definitely blushed when I asked him about them. I just thought his little questionnaire was so sweet and innocent (and an easy let down for him in case she said no, since he included "maybe another time") that I had to save them for him to read again someday when he's lots older.


I also found a "friend list" that he'd been sharing with Darcy, to show her as his "new" friend. After finding this I had to remind him that his teacher wouldn't appreciate him passing notes in class (whether with Darcy, or Coltin, or any other kid), and that it wasn't a good idea to write his friends names down and pass them around, in case he hurt someone's feelings for not making the list. At that, he told me that not everyone is listed, but everyone is his friend, except for a couple of boys who are not very nice and always in trouble (there always has to be a couple in every class, unfortunately). I told him that even if the "bad" boys found the list and weren't upset not to be listed as his friends, they might share it with other kids who WOULD be upset. And that he might hurt Buster's feelings, since he's the only animal not listed (to which he replied that of COURSE Buster is his friend, he just didn't get to finish his list). Then I questioned him why his new video game system, his tablet, summer, winter, weekends, and Spring Break were listed as friends, and he explained that it's really more of a list of things he likes. So then I asked him why I was listed below both the Switch AND Darcy (in mock sadness) and he quickly assured me that not only was the list not comprehensive, but it also wasn't in any particular order. So we'll go with that. And hopefully this was a quick lesson learned about not passing notes (or at least not passing notes about things that could incriminate you in some form or fashion)...
